old sport
JB JB

old sport

I didn’t think I’d need to read The Great Gatsby to know I was going to love it. Having spent the majority of my childhood glued to the Turner Classic Movies channel, I knew…

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the gift
JB JB

the gift

Once in a blue moon, something happens that knocks you for a loop, leaves your head spinning, and your heart in a thousand splintered pieces.

It can be a heartbreak, a betrayal…

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the abyss
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the abyss

I have a metaphor about grief that I’ve honed over the years.

Imagine you’re walking along a path. It’s a nice hike in a rainforest somewhere. The difficulty of the path varies: sometimes it’s rocky…

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mirrors
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mirrors

I am not the same person I was two months ago.

It’s hard to explain without going into great detail…

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paths and passageways
JB JB

paths and passageways

I’m not sure what drives me to do objectively stupid things, like jumping off a bridge to be a human pendulum, dangling by my feet. Maybe it’s because…

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on creative redemption
JB JB

on creative redemption

“You don’t look like you’re having fun up there,” multiple people have told me over the last month or so.

Fact check: true.

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no more excuses
JB JB

no more excuses

Two days ago, the day I had been irrationally dreading since it emerged on my mental horizon finally arrived. My thirtieth birthday. As one might expect, I felt no different after…

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friends, family, and fundraising
JB JB

friends, family, and fundraising

Money complicates everything, in my experience. I’ll never forget how much my relationship with my parents improved as soon as I was no longer financially dependent on them, or how nickle-and-diming a college roommate completely soured…

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on life’s nonlinearities
JB JB

on life’s nonlinearities

It’s been nearly a year since I’ve written a proper blog post, and what a whirlwind year it has been. I got back from my 13 weeks of European travel just in time for…

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taking the leap, flying the coop
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taking the leap, flying the coop

For those who don't know yet, I'm leaving the country for two, hopefully three months next Tuesday, August 17th! I'll be living abroad for the hell of it and working remotely from Croatia, Italy, Turkey, and hopefully…

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align by design
JB JB

align by design

On my 28th birthday last December, I was fortunate enough to be on a hill with a telescope and two of my favorite people in the world. As the sun was setting on my corner of the Texas hill country, we got a glimpse of the alignment of Jupiter and Saturn through a gap in the clouds.

It was uncharacteristically…

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from me & mine to you & yours
JB JB

from me & mine to you & yours

Whew! What a year. I don’t know about y’all, but I miss dressing up, going out, celebrating with good people at holiday parties and weddings….

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playing with fire
JB JB

playing with fire

Everyone takes risks everyday. Whether we realize it or not, we are constantly weighing tradeoffs between two or more things, whether that’s investment versus return, pain versus comfort, challenge versus ease. Sometimes, the way we…

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